Dear Future Husband

Dear Future Husband,

We haven't met yet.  I hope that we do meet soon.  I'm sure we will meet in the future.  We are bound to, considering how hard my soul keeps searching for you.  I can't wait to finally meet you.

I hope that by the time we meet I will have become the perfect husband for you.  Not the "Perfect Husband", but the one that is right for you.  I don't have a lot of relational baggage, but I might have some emotional baggage that comes from becoming jaded about relationships (and feeling like I'll never find you).  Just so you know, I don't really like games.  I really hope that I am comfortable enough with you that I can be honest.  And I hope the same goes for you.  I also hope that I will be strong enough at that point that I can receive constructive criticism and harsh truths with grace.

I'm not very good at promoting myself, but I dare say that I have some good qualities that I bring to the relationship.  I'm a sensitive soul, or so I've been told.  I like to cook, if I have the time and energy.  And I don't really mind doing dishes.  Although, I do like working with people, so I like cooking with people and doing dishes with people.  I'm also very analytic--usually too much so.  I over-think things but that means that I think about them.  I also try to be thoughtful.  Being over-analytic, though, makes me overlook things sometimes.

I "miss" you (though that's not the right word because we haven't met yet), so please hurry up and find me.

nathan